Friday, July 3, 2009
March 17th 2009
Yep, Im heading back into time, I need my blog to get some attention I will get to why the attention is needed at the end of this blog book.
March 17th well started out good, it was a normal day my 14 year old sister we had custody of went to school our 9 year old wen to school and my husband put on his United States Army uniform. He went to work and I stayed home and started my everyday job of being a house wife. and mother to our youngest two girls ages 1 and 2 (at the time).
I had cleaned house fed them breakfast and started to sit down at the computer to start relaxing and enjoying my brief surf on the net, when I get a knock on my door. This was unsual since I live on a military post and I know no one, so I was excited. When I got to the door and answered it there were two ladies standing there, professionally dressed.
They asked me if I was who I am and of course I said yes, then they asked me if my sister was who she is and I said yeah why what did she do. My sister came to live with us because she had some major problems at home and was heading down the wrong road so we decided to step in and help. Well the women told me that its not my sister who had the problem, it was my husband. These people were from CPS (child protective service) and said they had a report my husband has been having sex with my sister!
Yeah, my day went to hell, I almost hit the floor I just about passed out. I asked if I could call my husband and have him come home since these allegations were on him. They said I could. As I was trying to call my husband with my hands shaking and my mind turning in all directions, I thought how am I going to ask him to come home, how will I tell him these people are here?....I remember this conversation to this day...He answered the phone like he always did, "Hello Babe" I said hey "Bobby, what are you doing" as I am trying to figure this out how to tell him that I have these people in my home. He told me he was sitting in a humvee and was waiting to get lucnh. So finally I said you need to get home NOW, He asked why whats wrong, so I told him, he said WHAT!. Finally he hung up the phone and got here in 5 min. He walked in and said "WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON!" The woman told him the same thing she told me, my husband got irate and walked outside, the CPS lady told him thats not how an innocent person acts. As I was sitting there with my head jumbled up and into pieces, CPs told me they were going to interview my sister at school and someone will get back to me. When they left my husband and his superior were still here. My husband is pacing back and forth and said he knows who turned him in for false allegations, he said it was my sisters friend because when she came to the door that morning to pick up my sister she acted weird and not herself. Well my husbands superior left and my husband stayed home. We were in the house and he couldnt sit still, I followed him all over the house and I remember this like a pictured burned into my mind, he jumped up on the counter in front of our microwave and his eyes filled up with tears, first time I seen my husband cry in years. He said "how could she do this to me". I told him not to worry about it because if its not true she going to say its not true. So I finally calmed him down and told him she would be home from school in about an hour in a half. So as we waited I tried calling my mom and anyone else I could think of.
Finally as time was getting closer my husband stated getting anxious, he was pacing back and fourth and wanted to meet her outside as she got off the bus. I tried to keep him in the house but he insisted on going outside. So I sat in the chair and waited to see them walk up to the house finally I saw our neighbor girl who is friends with my sister walk into her house so I knew she had to be close. I walked outside and my husband and her were walking up to the house together. We all walked inside and I asked her what this crap was about, and she said "I dont know, I was interviewed by CPS and I told them it wasnt true." So some sense of reliefe was lifted until I noticed the lady who called CPS was circling my house and I couldnt handle it anymore and I went outside to confront her..................(blog continued latter)
March 17th well started out good, it was a normal day my 14 year old sister we had custody of went to school our 9 year old wen to school and my husband put on his United States Army uniform. He went to work and I stayed home and started my everyday job of being a house wife. and mother to our youngest two girls ages 1 and 2 (at the time).
I had cleaned house fed them breakfast and started to sit down at the computer to start relaxing and enjoying my brief surf on the net, when I get a knock on my door. This was unsual since I live on a military post and I know no one, so I was excited. When I got to the door and answered it there were two ladies standing there, professionally dressed.
They asked me if I was who I am and of course I said yes, then they asked me if my sister was who she is and I said yeah why what did she do. My sister came to live with us because she had some major problems at home and was heading down the wrong road so we decided to step in and help. Well the women told me that its not my sister who had the problem, it was my husband. These people were from CPS (child protective service) and said they had a report my husband has been having sex with my sister!
Yeah, my day went to hell, I almost hit the floor I just about passed out. I asked if I could call my husband and have him come home since these allegations were on him. They said I could. As I was trying to call my husband with my hands shaking and my mind turning in all directions, I thought how am I going to ask him to come home, how will I tell him these people are here?....I remember this conversation to this day...He answered the phone like he always did, "Hello Babe" I said hey "Bobby, what are you doing" as I am trying to figure this out how to tell him that I have these people in my home. He told me he was sitting in a humvee and was waiting to get lucnh. So finally I said you need to get home NOW, He asked why whats wrong, so I told him, he said WHAT!. Finally he hung up the phone and got here in 5 min. He walked in and said "WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON!" The woman told him the same thing she told me, my husband got irate and walked outside, the CPS lady told him thats not how an innocent person acts. As I was sitting there with my head jumbled up and into pieces, CPs told me they were going to interview my sister at school and someone will get back to me. When they left my husband and his superior were still here. My husband is pacing back and forth and said he knows who turned him in for false allegations, he said it was my sisters friend because when she came to the door that morning to pick up my sister she acted weird and not herself. Well my husbands superior left and my husband stayed home. We were in the house and he couldnt sit still, I followed him all over the house and I remember this like a pictured burned into my mind, he jumped up on the counter in front of our microwave and his eyes filled up with tears, first time I seen my husband cry in years. He said "how could she do this to me". I told him not to worry about it because if its not true she going to say its not true. So I finally calmed him down and told him she would be home from school in about an hour in a half. So as we waited I tried calling my mom and anyone else I could think of.
Finally as time was getting closer my husband stated getting anxious, he was pacing back and fourth and wanted to meet her outside as she got off the bus. I tried to keep him in the house but he insisted on going outside. So I sat in the chair and waited to see them walk up to the house finally I saw our neighbor girl who is friends with my sister walk into her house so I knew she had to be close. I walked outside and my husband and her were walking up to the house together. We all walked inside and I asked her what this crap was about, and she said "I dont know, I was interviewed by CPS and I told them it wasnt true." So some sense of reliefe was lifted until I noticed the lady who called CPS was circling my house and I couldnt handle it anymore and I went outside to confront her..................(blog continued latter)
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